Your subconscious programs shape every area of your life, and you don't even realize it.
Last year my brother and I were riding in the car, with my dad driving. He was going 5 mph below the speed limit (classic Tom), and a driver coming from the opposite direction took a left turn in front of him. My dad pumped the breaks and mumbled under his breath something to the effect of "crazy driver". The funny thing is the other driver had PLENTY of room and there was no danger. My brother and I looked at each other in amazement at how my dad analyzed and reacted to the situation. He is much more cautious then either of us.

     I being to analyze why he drives the way he does and I realized something... My dad has different values than me. And values shape every area of your life - even your driving. Both of my parents value safety much more than I do. Safety is way down on my values list, while adventure, novelty and risk taking are much higher. These values affect everything in our lives: where we vacation, the jobs and careers we pursue, the books we read, the type and quality of partners we choose, the friends we have, the investments we make (or don't) and yes even how we drive our vehicles. My ideal vacation is buying a one way ticket to a 3rd world country I've never been to, with no plans. Their ideal vacation is going back to the same place they went last year.

     99% of people don't even realize why they act the way they do and why they make the decisions they make. Its because of the way their values operate inside their nervous system. Don't look at what you say you value. That is your conscious mind trying to express what you feel you "should" value. Look at where you spend their time, money, attention, the actions you take, the habits you have and your external world. These will communicate what your ACTUAL subconscious values are, not what you want them to be.
Many times what you want your values to be and what they actually are are two very different things, this is the reason you push yourself towards a goal or habit and don't follow through or sabotage yourself. Your values aren't aligned with your goals.

     Where in your life are your deepest subconscious values not aligned with your goals?
If you'd like access to our program, Living Your Highest VALUES, to assess the values driving you, resolve internal conflicts and reset your nervous system click the link below.

If you want a deeper understanding of how values operate in your nervous system check out my video explaining the three levels of values that we will be working on during the values program.