This is what I call "The Paradox of Validation"

I used to think training my mind was about becoming something that I wasn't. To impress someone else.

What I've realized over time is that its more about removing the layers of what I'm not to become more of what I truly am. Impressing others be damned.

The Paradox of Validation is that when you seek validation you get very little of it. When you don't need validation from anyone suddenly, they just give it to you.

We often bury our true authentic self as a means to adapt to our culture, our society, our family our peers. We put on masks and facades and then we seek others validation to see if they like the mask we are wearing better than who we truly are underneath.
After years and decades of creating layers of facades its easy to forget who we truly are.
There is a vibration within you, an energetic signal buried deep inside that is who you are. It is your home. When you are connected to that state absent artifice you feel complete (because you are). You know what to do, you know what is in alignment.

If you've seen the Harry Potter series, I think of like the time Harry takes the luck potion. He just seems so free, in such flow, and knows exactly what to do an when.

I've been in that state.

You can access this part of you by seeking it. Intending and allowing it to come to the surface. You must learn to continually tune your vibrational field into this frequency of the true you. And you must release any need for anyone else to approve of the authentic you.

Its liberating. It should feel expansive. And joyful. Its all from a shift in vibration that comes from giving validation to yourself, and not seeking it from the outside.

​What would your life be like if you walked this earth as your true authentic self and never gave a thought to what anybody else thought of you? Thats what I wish for you. Thats what I wish for me!